Thursday, March 12, 2009

Are YOU A Victim??

Are You a Victim?

15 Warning Signs of Abuse

1. Gets too close, too fast

2. Is excessively possessive

3. Is controlling

4. Has unrealistic expectations

5. Isolates you

6. Blames others for problems and mistakes

7. Refuses to take personal responsibility for feelings

8. Is hypersensitive

9. Is cruel to animals and pets

10. Displays "playful" use of force

11. Verbally assaults you

12. Insists on rigid roles

13. Displays sudden mood swings

14. Has battered in the past

15. Threatens you with physical violence

As taken from The Family Place Website.
Don't be a victim of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Know the signs...
Get Help.

8 People Saying Something!

Vérité Parlant 13 March, 2009 00:30

Women need to pay attention to that list because we tend to think when a man is bombarding us with attention it's a sign he loves us. It's more than likely a sign he's obsessed with us and obsession is not love, not even during the infatuation stage.

Thank you for reminding women of the signs.

♫Hershey's Kiss♫ 13 March, 2009 23:56

I'm so glad that you posted this. Women and men alike need to know the signs of abuse. I'm tired of the cycle. When will it end? I've spoken out against domestic abuse because I've been a victim. I can't tell it all , but I thank God that I'm a man that stands against domestic violence.


This is an interesting list because there are a few things on it that I am, but I'm not an abuser-never have been and never will be, it's just not in my nature to be an abuser, even moreso since I never saw my dad abuse my mother.

clnmike 15 March, 2009 03:16

Good list.


You know i didnt get warning signs until it was tooooo late....


Get help; get smart; get out!
Love yourself as much as God loves you and keep yourself safe!

That person is not the only person in the world. Someone will be sent by God to really love you.

Being by yourself is not the worst thing that could happen to you!

Great post!!!!!!!!!

Alicia Michele Benjamin 17 March, 2009 11:58

Great list. Thank God for giving me insight along the way! God bless you Regina! 20 March, 2009 15:45

Hey there Regina,

There are women who don't think they are in an abusive relationship...

One of my friends is a successful executive... her husband set a rule that she can't have phone calls AFTER 10:00 p.m. and she follows this rule when he's in the house and not traveling on business.

He also tells her what she can and can not wear and he has chosen clothing for her that I know she can't stand that she wears for HIM!

He also told her that she was forbidden to speak to she told her secretary to send me an email!

This is not some young wife either...she's older than I am...

He doesn't use physical violence but he certainly uses emotional domination.

His power trip began BEFORE the wedding. She wanted a honeymoon and planned it all out and he didn't so she cancelled the whole thing and she didn't have a honeymoon. Gurlll...

My Fort Worth, TX Weather...

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